NKY JOYE's BLOG

Honestly there is no Manual on how to know the best person for you, you just know and with prayers you can get the best direction. The right manual to use is your brain and your heart. But there are few attributes to know  the right person for you . Forever is a long time to be miserable. 1. Understanding There are no two ways about it, once the both of you can click and understand each other, your mind works together that is good , but when you have difficulties in understanding each other, the boat won't be an easy ride, you will find a lot of flaws, unnecessary arguments, tearing each other's throats its a sign that you are dealing with Mr/Mrs "Left" and not Mr/Mrs "Right". Some times you can disagree on somethings it's normal,  but in a case when its too much it's not too good. There should be high level of understanding between both partners. 2. Connection This is a major key for any relationship to work, there must be a strong conn

Often times most people, think a bad marriage is the fault of the woman for not being able to keep her home ,which is totally wrong. In marriage everyone have their part to play and when one part is failing the other gives up hope and everything falls off. Here are few reasons why some marriages don't work out. 1. Too Much Ego Some people are so egocentric, they value their ego, more than what they are beautifully building with their partners, and these sort of people are so selfish, that it must always be all about them in every situation. When it comes to marriage you have to break some of your protocols and rules. You just have to understand that your super ego will not make you happy it will only ruin your happiness. 2. Laziness This disease is so strong that when it takes hold of you, you will be feeling it's because God did not create you to suffer. Some men are so lazy to go out of their comfort zone, to provide for their family, and such creates disrespect